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Always remember to be a listener first

Here I list 10 things to facilitate dialogue between parents and teachers.

1. Always be a listener first. Teachers and parents should listen to each other before judgement. There is always more than one perspective. Most likely what parents see at home is not what teachers see at school.

2. Teachers should always start with a positive with parents. Share something good that the student is doing. It is easier to then talk about some of the more difficult topics after a positive start.

3. Ensure understanding by both parties. Misunderstandings are so common. Teachers and parents should walk away from a conversation having a solid understanding of what was just talked about.

4. Ask questions! Be an active participant in the conversation. Ask for explanations. Don’t be afraid to learn more.

5. Work towards a common goal and direct the conversation towards that.

6. Always keep the best interest of the student as first priority.

7. Remember that parents, teachers and counselors really only want what is best for the student. Keep that as a common goal and you can work through any differences.

8. Respect cultural differences. Not everyone has the same priorities, traditions and perspectives.

9. A little humor is always helpful. But be respectful. Humor can lighten a tense conversation.

10. Be honest and truthful. Honesty will lead to powerful discussions that will make for solid connections and growth.




 

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